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MutantMandias Perverse and Often Baffling
Location: Atlanta, GA Gender: Male Total Likes: 268 likes
Are you a reporter? Contact me for a UE interview! Also not averse to the the idea of group/anal.
| | | | Re: My Loss < Reply # 3 on 8/18/2008 12:58 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | I consider myself extremely fortunate in that I have not had to go through many significant losses, but I still grieve my mother almost daily, after 3 and a half years. And the thought that is bringing me to tears, even as I type this, is that my children will not get to know her, and that she never got to know them, all the more so because I credit her total and unconditional love as one of the strongest influences in how I am raising my kids.
| mutantMandias may cause dizziness, sexual nightmares, and sleep crime. ++++ mutantMandias has to return some videotapes ++++ Do not taunt mutantMandias mutantMandias is something more than human, more than a computer. mutantMandias is a murderously intelligent, sensually self-programmed, non-being |
| cr400
Location: Los Angeles, CA Gender: Male Total Likes: 73 likes
| | | Re: My Loss < Reply # 12 on 4/5/2009 10:47 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | This was the last thing I expected when I decided to become a member of this UER website. I am not much of a joiner, but I felt compelled to become a full member on this site. I was drawn to the exploring, photos, member interaction. People seemed to care about one another! I liked that. Once I got full membership, and after awhile, I stumbled upon this forum. My parent both died 9 years ago, seems like yesterday. I think of them every day and I miss them, God do I miss them. It is little things, such as joining this website, finding this forum, this thread, that show me that I am not quite healed, but am getting better, thru the help of others that have suffered significant losses in their lives also. Ophie, I am so very sorry for your loss, thanks for thinking of other sufferers even during your own time of suffering. Thanks for posting all the links and info that you have. Thanks for approving My full membership! I needed to be able to find your thread. Thanks, Randall.
| You can see a million miles tonite, but you can't get very far. Honorary member of UER lifetime acheivement award winning, 2Xplorations and Guide Services, Texas. |
| wings2fly
Location: anywhere I wanna be Gender: Female Total Likes: 2 likes
we're all a little loony
| | | Re: My Loss < Reply # 14 on 11/13/2011 12:50 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | It has only been 2 years for me, since my lovely daughter passed away...I can't say that I feel cheated, just sad. I was blessed to enjoy her company for a mere 26 years, and I am a better person for that experience. I miss her always, every day, all day. I am also blessed to have her younger sister, and a beautiful 7 year old grand-daughter to help me keep her memory alive. We speak of her as a living person, because in our hearts, she is alive. I know that she is happy, healthy, and both mentally and spiritually whole, finally; and, for that, I will be eternally grateful. 1.
| ...whither shall I wander, upstairs or downstairs or in my lady's chambers... |
| wings2fly
Location: anywhere I wanna be Gender: Female Total Likes: 2 likes
we're all a little loony
| | | Re: My Loss < Reply # 16 on 11/13/2011 3:39 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | I have not gone to any formal grief counseling groups per say...however, her death came after a long struggle with bi-polar disorder and substance abuse. She had been off her drug of choice, meth, for somewhere around a year and a half. She was, unfortunately, huffing aerosol duster, the night she died. There comes a time that you can no longer "babysit" your child... I do have, and have been blessed to have always had, a large support group, family, friends and co-workers, to include my superiors, who have understood and comforted me through the sometimes nightmarish journey that she choose for her life. I did seek out groups, NAMI, Bi-Polar support groups, and more than a few drug abuse support groups. I watched as the lack of appropriate medical care resulted in her self medication with anything and everything she could get her hands on out there on the streets. I had to accept that my attempts to have an adult, who was hurting nobody but herself, held against her will to be righfully unattainable. She had done another stint, her longest, in jail, and had been living with her father...for about a year and a half when she died. She had a great job that she loved. She was talking about going back to college. She was, to her dis-advantage, very intelligent; certainly smarter than her old Mom, here. Had a boyfriend, who loved her despite everything, and then one day.... I have never, for one moment, thought, or believed for that matter, that when our bodies die, we cease to exist..... I believe our children are gifts, and that in return we strive to bring them up and share their lives in a way that will encourage them to be a gift to everyone they meet, and I believe my daughter strived to do just that, in her own way. I learned things from her that I would never have learned any other way, and I AM a better person for having her in my life. And, I believe she lives on.
| ...whither shall I wander, upstairs or downstairs or in my lady's chambers... |
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