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UER Forum > Archived UE Main > Should women explore alone? (Viewed 6305 times)
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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 60 on 11/5/2010 6:15 PM >
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Posted by tullo
ive been raped hundreds of times. roland just raped me this past saturday AND sunday.


Well, sorry, but when you dress the way that you did you're basically asking for it.



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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 61 on 11/5/2010 6:21 PM >
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Posted by tullo
ive been raped hundreds of times. roland just raped me this past saturday AND sunday.


I was gonna rape you!!!

..then I decided to go exploring. Alone.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 62 on 11/5/2010 8:01 PM >
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IN ABANDONED ASYLUM, WOMAN RAPES YOU!

Fact: Women live longer than men and are generally more cautious.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 63 on 11/5/2010 8:21 PM >
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i like to explore women alone or in groups.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 64 on 11/5/2010 8:45 PM >
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I think alot of people either didn't read what i had to say or didn't think about what i had to say because it was too long. Im just going to throw the general jist out there so i can clear up some of the confusions.

what i said was that woman should explore alone if they want to...but there are some places that would behoove them to think real hard about taking precautions and taking male companions with them. I then went on to ask why do women feel demeaned when it is suggested that going into location x alone would be pretty dumb.

i see the response that im blaiming rape victims by saying that.(which i certianly am not nor did i ever imply it.)

I think alot of people just bothered to read the title and thats it. I know my post was long and drawn out and poorly written. sometimes i have difficulty protraying what i have to say and miscommunications happen. But i think if you read the OP and think a little about what i had to say, it'd be fairly easy to see where im coming from and that im only interested in seeing why it seems women get irrational when this topic is brought up and why so many men feel the need to white knight these damsels in distress lol.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 65 on 11/5/2010 8:54 PM >
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I explore alone sometimes. Depends on the location. A lot of places are not safe for anyone to visit alone. As for the rape thing...other than a few areas, I'm not too worried about that. If you are smart it isn't too likely.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 66 on 11/5/2010 9:02 PM >
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Posted by compaq12986
I think alot of people either didn't read what i had to say or didn't think about what i had to say because it was too long.


Other people just thought what you had to say was condescending, rambling and poorly articulated.


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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 67 on 11/5/2010 9:06 PM >
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Men want to explore with women who'd rather go alone because:

UE is one of few modern scenarios left in which we're able to be heroic and manly men any more.

There are no other men to compete with.

Cute women are get-out-jail-free cards.

Explorer chicks are fucking cool.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 68 on 11/5/2010 9:29 PM >
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You know, it's just not something I ever encountered. I've explored with women of all ages and never once was I fearful for their safety. In fact, the women are just as willing to go into a dark room or crawl through an open window to get the UER-ing done, often more willing in fact! In every case, the women I've explored with could easily handle themselves on their own.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 69 on 11/5/2010 10:26 PM >
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My wife explores with me. I have never been scared for her safety, nor my own. Maybe my town is safer than most, or maybe I've been lucky, but I have never had a crime committed against me anywhere I have lived, Chattanooga, Sacramento, Bakersfield, Tucson, New Orleans, New York, or Boston. But so far there is not even a place I wouldn't feel safe about "letting" my wife explore by herself. She was a dancer for most of her life and is insanely strong, I would say her legs are far stronger than mine. Besides, I am confident that since these women folk are into UEing they are more than enough aware of the risk that we all do. Anyone can be the victim of a crime regardless of sex, race, or age. Fearing for a woman exploring is like not fearing because you bring a black guy. Its offensive.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 70 on 11/5/2010 11:08 PM >
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Having taken the time to read the initial post and all replies while not taking the lazy TL;DR way out, here is my serious answer. I think I can see what you were asking, and will provide a non-troll response...

Should women explore alone? If they want to, absolutely.

Would it be a wise decision? Exploring alone in an abandoned building/area presents a higher risk to anyone's safety and while it is entirely possible for a male to be sexually assaulted, the female is at a greater risk. Statistics speak for themselves on this one.

You'd have to be a complete idiot to say that there was absolutely *no* risk, or the *same risk* as a male, for a solo female. The same way that a woman walking alone on a street at night is at a higher risk than a male... this is our society.

There will be females on here who will admit to not being afraid to explore alone. In my 12 years of exploring however, I've never met one who actually does. She might go with another female friend, but never alone. The ones who do go alone, did so in a nature setting (beach, trail) and usually with a dog - definitely not an abandoned building or institution. Those are only from my experiences, yours may vary.

So to answer your question in a single sentence... "If they want to, but at a greater risk."
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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 71 on 11/6/2010 12:08 AM >
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Posted by dsankt
I like my exploring to be as dangerous as possible, so I usually exploring alone dressed as a school girl.


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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 72 on 11/6/2010 12:19 AM >
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Posted by heinrick
Cute women are get-out-jail-free cards.



Mostly this.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 73 on 11/6/2010 12:48 AM >
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Posted by becckeezHowever, us chicks have the most awesome bad ass move that you guys could never use. Straight kick to the balls. I'm confident this one move will protect me in almost any circumstance.

No.

There's a reason this technique (standalone kick in the balls) isn't in any form of martial arts: It doesn't work. I've been taught a ball shot once in 5 years of lessons, and it was in a chain. "After they are distracted because you broke a rib, grab the inside of the thigh to throw them down and then finish them. Oh, and while your grabbing the inside of the thigh you might as well throw in a ball tap."

You can kick them in balls if you want, just don't stop there. A ball shot is just not debilitating pain. It hurts, but we can still run / fight / etc etc. When you kick a man in the balls and you see him pause it's because he is pouring his entire consciousness into not destroying what/whoever is nearest to him.

Broken ribs, noses (especially noses), clavicles, kidneys, eardrums, eyes, etc are all better than ball-shots. Try to combo at least two in there if you feel compelled to ball-kick.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 74 on 11/6/2010 12:50 AM >
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Posted by Roland


Well, sorry, but when you dress the way that you did you're basically asking for it.




She was practically begging to get graped.

WHAT??

Dude, did you see what she was wearing?

WHAT SHE WAS WEARING??

Yeah! It was purple!


(I saw this as a thread-of-a-losing-battle from square 1. You can point out all the facts you want, but it doesn't mean that you'll get any women on here to agree with them. Someone else made a good point. A majority of the UER guys aren't all that statuesque in manly nature and build. And some of the women... *gasp!* I wouldn't want to tangle with either. Besides, what good is raping someone when your dick falls off two weeks later from ghonoherpesyphilitis?)

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 75 on 11/6/2010 12:58 AM >
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Most women know the answer to this one!

Also, little white women are seen as being week...even if they think they're tough. I've worked in bad neighborhoods and that is what the tougher crowd thinks.

The best way to avoid a problem is to avoid the situation that creates the problem. You won't know you're about to be raped until it's too late. Robbery and other crimes are also more likely if you are seen as being weaker because that's how the criminal mind works. They want the victim that will be an easy score.

The Other Answer: Why explore alone?! Pretty women can go exploring with me! lmao

TrixieSparrow 


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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 76 on 11/6/2010 1:30 AM >
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Posted by Urbex Cleveland
Most women know the answer to this one!

Also, little white women are seen as being week...even if they think they're tough. I've worked in bad neighborhoods and that is what the tougher crowd thinks.

The best way to avoid a problem is to avoid the situation that creates the problem. You won't know you're about to be raped until it's too late. Robbery and other crimes are also more likely if you are seen as being weaker because that's how the criminal mind works. They want the victim that will be an easy score.

The Other Answer: Why explore alone?! Pretty women can go exploring with me! lmao


I think I would be safer on my own...kthnx...



Actually one thing I find about being on my own is that I don't have to worry about keeping others safe, which at times can become a risk to others in the group.

I usually go in a small group or with one other person though. Thats the best way to do it. Less people to worry about (I know some people don't give a shit, but in my opinion it is all in all out and never leave a man behind, you should take care of the people with you or just stay home), and if something happens to ones self there are people there to help you. It's just best with people you trust.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 77 on 11/6/2010 1:36 AM >
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Women should explore alone and they should bring GUNZ for protection.

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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 78 on 11/6/2010 1:51 AM >
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Posted by Dresden


I think I would be safer on my own...kthnx...




You should be fine. I don't think they have any crime in Canada!

TrixieSparrow 


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Re: Should women explore alone?
<Reply # 79 on 11/6/2010 2:05 AM >
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Posted by Urbex Cleveland


You should be fine. I don't think they have any crime in Canada!


Yeah, our main export isn't crippling depression, so people don't feel the need to commit crimes as much.

But at least you're not detroit. Which is awesome to explore, both the city and the abandonment.

http://www.youtube...atch?v=ysmLA5TqbIY and http://www.youtube...ZM&feature=related



But really, being a female, in most areas the danger is not because you are a woman, it's the normal abandoned building type stuff. And yes, sometimes there are big bad men who want to rape little girls. Don't walk around like you are so afraid and weak, learn to handle yourself, and dont go to an abandonment alone if you know its right next to a crackhouse or a sketchy strip club (hell, men shouldn't go to places like that alone either).

Pretty much: you are as safe as you are smart about it.







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