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1 2 3 4 5   UER Forum > Archived Rookie Forum > urbex + parents (Viewed 2019 times) Crab_Soul   |  urbex + parents < on 6/8/2009 1:01 AM >   well im 19. and an adult. but.. i still live in my dads house and he still controls me threatining to kick me out of the house as well as my job as a drafter wich i get paid a crapload more than anything else i can do. well heres why im saying this. my dad just found me digital camera and looked through the photos and whatnot seeing all of my storm drain explorations. so he got on to me basicly about what ive been whineing about lately. "you dont know what to do if you run into a hobo they make camps down there!" I saw a breathing lump under a blanket, what could it be? - 1 hobo - 2 dwarf hobos - 8 racoons - 443 rats - 896 mice or 11 rat kings? argonian  Location: Toronto, ON Gender: Female "Now with added cats!"  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 1 on 6/8/2009 1:04 AM >   Do whatever you need to to hold on to the job. I don't see another one in your future soon. Que pasa, baby? olive  Location: hamilton Gender: Female good plan, poorly executed.  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 2 on 6/8/2009 1:12 AM >   hahahahhahaha. I'm 17, and (luckily) my parents are VERY supportive of this hobby. My dad even got me hooked as a little kid taking me into whitby psych. As for your problem: as long as your under his roof, you have to play by his rules. Get another memory card, and use one for exploring and one for everything else. at 19, you're old enough to make your own decisions. Put some passwords on your computer too. If your going to lie to him about where you are, always make sure you tell some one else where your going, and dont drain alone. Sorry, what was that you were saying about forever alone? Allva  Location: San Antonio, Texas Gender: Male I have my moments.  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 3 on 6/8/2009 1:15 AM >   Posted by Crab_Soul well im 19. and an adult. but.. i still live in my dads house and he still controls me threatining to kick me out of the house as well as my job as a drafter wich i get paid a crapload more than anything else i can do. well heres why im saying this. my dad just found me digital camera and looked through the photos and whatnot seeing all of my storm drain explorations. so he got on to me basicly about what ive been whineing about lately. "you dont know what to do if you run into a hobo they make camps down there!" Move out as soon as you can. Take control of your life. You'll never look back. Life is hard, but it's harder when you're stupid. Crab_Soul   |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 4 on 6/8/2009 1:17 AM >   yea. but hes been telling me how crazy the world is my whole life. and ive been very sheltered. so ive always thawt hobos were mindless zombies with rusty shanks ready to pounce. all ide have to really do anyway is run around the next turn and turn off my flash light. i highly doubt a hobo has nightvision.. plus they wouldnt live there with the risk of flash floods.. I saw a breathing lump under a blanket, what could it be? - 1 hobo - 2 dwarf hobos - 8 racoons - 443 rats - 896 mice or 11 rat kings? NotBatman  Location: MSP Gender: Male Secret Cult Member  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 5 on 6/8/2009 1:28 AM >   Posted by Crab_Soul i highly doubt a hobo has nightvision.. They do, though. They do. (Well, most of them, anyway...) I'm a "Leave only footprints, take only pornography" kind of guy, myself. Bustedknuckle  Location: The Lone Star State Gender: Male "I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints"  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 6 on 6/8/2009 1:37 AM >   Listen to your father. "It's not a fanny pack, it's an exploring pouch!" -"Yes it is, it has fanny written all over it" Crab_Soul   |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 7 on 6/8/2009 2:14 AM >   skrew that.. im still exploreing behind his back.. i tell him im going geocaching.. exploreing is what i enjoy.. my dad belives you have to work till you die so you can go to heavan or whatever. i belive we only live once and dont go anywhere when we die so im going to have fun even if i die doing it. I saw a breathing lump under a blanket, what could it be? - 1 hobo - 2 dwarf hobos - 8 racoons - 443 rats - 896 mice or 11 rat kings? Secretsquirrel  Location: Space City Tejas Gender: Male  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 8 on 6/8/2009 3:29 AM >   Posted by Crab_Soul skrew that.. im still exploreing behind his back.. i tell him im going geocaching.. exploreing is what i enjoy.. my dad belives you have to work till you die so you can go to heavan or whatever. i belive we only live once and dont go anywhere when we die so im going to have fun even if i die doing it. E-X-P-L-O-R-I-N-G !!! Check this site out. http://forums.teenhelp.org/mainsite.php From now on direct all your questions to that forum instead of UER. http://www.flickr....ecretsquirrel5468/ http://instagram.com/secret_photography# Crab_Soul   |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 9 on 6/8/2009 3:39 AM >   exploreing. pssh that site would do either of 3 things. fill my head with religous bullcrap tell me to conform to society and tell me to stop exploring.. i say never. and i cant just be a teen anymore. i need to grow up. and find my own people. and you guys dont really know me outside forums. i know i act like a complete douchbag. but im a very serious but fun person when i explore. I saw a breathing lump under a blanket, what could it be? - 1 hobo - 2 dwarf hobos - 8 racoons - 443 rats - 896 mice or 11 rat kings? PhotoSeeker  Location: Sudbury Gender: Male MikeOnline  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 10 on 6/8/2009 4:02 AM >   Well, I'm a parent of a 15-year-old daughter, and she comes with me on my explorations. I get wanting to protect your kids, but she learns so much from these trips, it's amazing. History, architecture, respect for property (oddly enough), photography, safety, the odd lesson in first aid, and a sense of adventure and confidence that's turned a quiet, shy, introvert into a leader. That being said, every situation is different, and only you know yours. My thought, however, is if you're 19, making good money, and having difficulty asserting your adulthood, move out on your own. Get your own place, and you might be surprised the difference it will make. Don't do it as a confrontational, fuck you, I'm out of here, kind of thing. Do it as a, I want to be an adult and take on my own responsibilities, thing. I think he'll respect that. Begin cutting the ties, or at least stretching them. Lots of Urban Exploration goodness at https://urbexobsession.com takeonlypictures  Location: Arizona Barbed wire is the enemy!  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 11 on 6/8/2009 4:24 AM >   Ive convinced my parentals that I'm in a band. So "band practice" is urban exploring with friends. Take only what will not be missed, leave only what will not be noticed. Crab_Soul   |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 12 on 6/8/2009 4:38 AM >   yea i love the history. finding old stuff ive never seen before.. old technology. things before my time.. and places untouched by anyone in years.. I saw a breathing lump under a blanket, what could it be? - 1 hobo - 2 dwarf hobos - 8 racoons - 443 rats - 896 mice or 11 rat kings? TurboZutek  King Dick Location: Scotland Gender: Male Giant octo-penised rapephant  |  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 13 on 6/8/2009 8:46 AM >   I've convinced my parents I'm a crack whore. 'Working the street on Sat night' = exploring! They don't suspect a THING. Chris... We all had ostriches. My dad had an ostrich farm! I remember one day someone came in and said the high altitude bombing of Kosovo had been a limited success, so we all went out and celebrated… by killing an ostrich and boiling it in kiwi fruit. WarBird69  Location: Eastern TN Gender: Male Atomic Bird of War  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 14 on 6/8/2009 12:48 PM >   Posted by argonian Do whatever you need to to hold on to the job. I don't see another one in your future soon. After reading your other threads, I must agree. Face it. Being a dick to your dad and going anyway is just going to either result in you being jobless, homeless, or both. You live under his roof, therefore you abide by his rules. End of story. Your old enough he CAN kick you out...always remember that when making decisions that may affect your residency and/or job position. So unless your ready to move out on your own and quite possibly find a new job, I'd put a damper on your exploration for now. When twilight draws near, when you are pushed to the very limits of your soul, when it seems that all you have left are the dead remnants of the fabric of your life: -- BELIEVE anathema  Gender: Female  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 15 on 6/8/2009 12:55 PM >   Ditto the "hang onto the job" advice. If you're making enough to move out and become a responsible adult, go for it. If not, stay with Dad but you have to accept his rules if you're in his house. That's just how it is. Whichever route you choose, good luck with it. "Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower." ~~Steve Jobs yokes  Location: Toronto Gender: Male I aim to misbehave  |  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 16 on 6/8/2009 2:06 PM >   I agree about the job... but think it would be hilarious if you took a photo of your asshole and left it on the card. Would serve your dad right if he got a nice big eye full of that when he snoops next. "Great architecture has only two natural enemies: water and stupid men." - Richard Nickel MutantMandias  Perverse and Often Baffling Location: Atlanta, GA Gender: Male Are you a reporter? Contact me for a UE interview! Also not averse to the the idea of group/anal.  |  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 17 on 6/8/2009 2:12 PM >   Posted by yokes I agree about the job... but think it would be hilarious if you took a photo of your asshole and left it on the card. Better yet... get a really super hot girlfriend and take pictures of her tits and post them here. It's the only way to assert your adulthood... just ask Action Satisfaction. mutantMandias may cause dizziness, sexual nightmares, and sleep crime. ++++ mutantMandias has to return some videotapes ++++ Do not taunt mutantMandias mutantMandias is something more than human, more than a computer. mutantMandias is a murderously intelligent, sensually self-programmed, non-being NotBatman  Location: MSP Gender: Male Secret Cult Member  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 18 on 6/8/2009 2:14 PM >   Posted by yokes but think it would be hilarious if you took a photo of your asshole and left it on the card. Note to Self: Take more pictures of my asshole I'm a "Leave only footprints, take only pornography" kind of guy, myself. shellyl  Location: Lenoir NC Gender: Female I have learned not sweat the petty things and not to pet the sweaty things.  |  Re: urbex + parents <Reply # 19 on 6/8/2009 2:21 PM >   I am a mother of a soon to be 18yo daughter. I am very over protective of her sometimes. I can also be a bit overbearing when it comes to what I think she should be doing with her life. I don't do these things because I want to be a pain in the ass controlling mother. It is out of love and my job as a parent. I know she will do those things that she should not, I am no fool. If I get on her ass about it maybe some of our loud and sometimes emotional conversations will play back in her head. I just want her to think things through when she goes and does what I would rather she did not. She is not into exploring but she has chewed me more than once after seeing my pics. Mom don't you ever listen to your own advice. You could have been killed doing that or mom leave me some cash for your bail, I am not paying to spring you. A mirage is not an optical illusion. It is a real phenomenon, and one can take photographs of it. The interpretation of the image, however, is up to the fantasy of the human mind. 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