Posted by LauraBeth you would think that if someone was that blatantly stupid you would notice long before ever getting involved with them...no?
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no i didn't notice bc my photography had never really come up. i always said i was going on a shoot and would be back later, until one time a friend dicked out on me and i was heading to a bad neighborhood and wanted someone along to be on the safe side, asked the now ex-bf, and this is when i found out all of that and was basically told no etc etc and i responded ok, and then went anyways and never brought it up again.
surprisingly enough when i kicked that douchebag to the curb i didnt date for awhile and maybe 2 or 3 years later another idiot comes rolling along, at the time i didnt know he was an idiot, and everything again was fine until he asked what kind of photography i did and then he forbid me from going too! how weird is that! so basically i did the same as the story above, said ok and went anyways and kicked his ass to the curb not too much later.
one cannot expect their significant other to enjoy everything you enjoy, thats unfair to expect that. to show concern for my safety is one thing, but to forbid me from going is totally another animal. and basically that led to their asses getting dumped, their loss not mine.
the newest guy is supportive and as come on one or two shoots but it's just not his thing, he loves my work but would rather do his own thing. i can't blame him for not liking it, like i said its wrong to expect your significant other to love everything you do.