Posted by ActionSatisfaction Esq. Man up, tell him you don't have the time or money to bother with him right now, and you don't want to be a bitch about it, but to let you contact him if you ever wanna hang out again. If he gets pissy and never wants to be your friend again, problem solved. If he is ok with it and understands, problem solved. If he pretends he's ok with it, but then continues to do it, tell him you're going to just ignore him so stop bothering. Problem should eventually be solved. I hate when people dance around shit like that. If you don't want to hang out with me, tell me, I have better things to do with my time then try to make better with somebody who doesn't want to be my friend anymore. No offense to you of course. I've had people who've thought I was ducking or avoiding them myself, and I tell them it's just not so. Circumstances are what they are.
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Yes Action, but you are a rational, logical person. I get the impression, from Tullo's writings, that her ex-friend has some "issues". If that is so, then a direct confrontation such as that, could possibly send this person over the edge. Then it will become much, much worse.