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Shael
Location: Witherbee, NY. Gender: Female Total Likes: 7 likes
Baaaaah.
| | | Re: curiousity: how do you get over someone? < Reply # 1 on 10/24/2010 3:30 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Honey, time doesn't heal shit. Only thing that does is moving on, finding someone else and turning your attentions away from what you've lost. What makes it tough for me is when the person you've turned your attentions to ends up sick, really sick. Like heart surgery sick and there's nothing you can do about it. Which is what I'm going through right now. What really got me about it...he never told me. He just didn't show up for work and never told anyone what the matter was. He spent 3 days in the hospital last week, never said a word, never called me back, just came back to work for a few days, until they told him he needed surgery and then disappeared without telling anyone.
[last edit 10/24/2010 3:36 PM by Shael - edited 1 times]
| "The best wine lies at the bottom of the pail/And Happiness lies below the navel." - Drukpa Kunley, "The Divine Madman of the Dragon Lineage" and "Saint of 5,000 Women". |
| Shael
Location: Witherbee, NY. Gender: Female Total Likes: 7 likes
Baaaaah.
| | | Re: curiousity: how do you get over someone? < Reply # 8 on 10/25/2010 4:01 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | I wasn't talking about a rebound. I'm only talking about spending time with someone else. This guy is a really good friend and someone I would get involved with, if I could, but that isn't going to happen. We're better together than we are apart, that's for sure and the company we work for knows it, but it doesn't mean he's a rebound. I've been throwing myself into my work and trying to make my working relationship with him, which I'd neglected while I was with my ex, better. I love the guy, he knows I love him after I broke down and told him a while ago, but we can't and won't get that involved. We've talked about it. The biggest problem is just because we get along and work so well together doesn't mean we'd do so well together outside of work. So, we don't take that next step, it stays at work. I told him that my feelings don't change anything, the only thing it changes is the extent of what I would do for him and I don't mean sexually or anything crazy. I mean in the confines of work and my work with the union. Which means, with him being so sick, I have a lot of extra work to do until he can come back to work, both his job and my own at work, as well as his job and my own with the union, as we both are part of the executive board. Basically what it comes down to is finding something better to do and someone better to do it with. Sorry for the long story.
| "The best wine lies at the bottom of the pail/And Happiness lies below the navel." - Drukpa Kunley, "The Divine Madman of the Dragon Lineage" and "Saint of 5,000 Women". |
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